One of the things I love most about being a therapist is watching people discover that there is actually a name for something they’ve experienced their entire lives. They’ll describe a feeling or a pattern they’ve noticed and then look at me almost relieved when I tell them, “There’s a reason that happens.” Suddenly what…

There is something deeply unsettling about allowing ourselves to be fully seen. Not the version of us that has learned how to smile when we’re hurting or reassure everyone that we’re “doing fine.” Not the version that accomplishes, performs, fixes problems, and keeps moving because stopping would mean acknowledging how tired we really are. I…

I think one of the saddest things I’ve realized as a therapist is how many people mistake survival for living. It’s not because they’re doing anything wrong. In fact, most of them are incredibly resilient people. They’ve survived things that would have broken many others. They’ve kept going through trauma, grief, betrayal, illness, addiction, divorce,…

I find myself thinking about more and more as both a therapist and simply as a human being trying to make sense of this life is how much power our stories have. Not the stories that actually happened, because those are fixed. We can’t go back and rewrite our childhoods, undo painful conversations, erase betrayals,…

I’ve been thinking a lot about grief lately. Maybe that’s because this season of the year always seems to bring it back to the surface. The five-year anniversary of my dad’s death came and went. Then his birthday. Then Father’s Day. It felt like one reminder after another that someone incredibly important to me is…

I’ve spent a lot of my life thinking about this question. Not because I sat around reading philosophy books or trying to solve some great mystery, but because life has a way of forcing the question on you. Somewhere between heartbreak, loss, failure, healing, joy, and the ordinary moments in between, you eventually find yourself…

There is something extraordinary about human beings that we often forget in the middle of our suffering. We break. We fall apart. We lose people we thought we couldn’t live without. We face grief that steals the air from our lungs. We survive trauma that rewrites the way we experience the world. We endure seasons…

As I continue moving forward in my career, I find myself spending more time reflecting on everything that shaped me along the way — graduate school, difficult transitions, personal losses, jobs that stretched me beyond what I thought I could handle, and moments where I felt completely uncertain about whether I belonged in this field…

There’s something quietly brave about starting before you feel ready. Not because you know exactly where you’re going, or what this will become, but because something in you says, it’s time to begin anyway. Adventures In Change begins here — not as a finished product, not as a clearly defined offering, but as a place…