Over the years I’ve watched people become angry, cry, go completely silent, apologize before they even know what they’ve done wrong, or work overtime trying to fix the situation as quickly as possible. The more I’ve watched these moments unfold—in my therapy office, in my own relationships, and simply by paying attention to the people…
I keep catching myself looking down at my conference badge today. Not because I forgot my name. Because every time I do, I see three words staring back at me. Innovate. Implement. Impact. It’s funny because I’ve spent the day listening to incredible speakers, filling pages in my notebook, and having conversations with people who…
There are some survival stories that leave you wondering how someone managed to stay alive, and then there are stories that quietly change the way you look at your own life. Joe Simpson’s story has always been one of those for me. Not because he climbed a mountain or because he survived impossible odds, but…
Have you ever gotten in your car after a conversation and found yourself replaying every word that was said? Maybe someone looked at you a certain way, paused before responding, or said something that didn’t sit quite right. Before you know it, you’re driving home while mentally editing the conversation, imagining better responses, wondering if…
Most of us know what a hangover feels like. You wake up feeling drained, foggy, and not quite like yourself. Even though the event that caused it is over, your body is still paying the price. What many people don’t realize is that our emotions can leave us with hangovers too. Have you ever left…
Every time I write one of these Survival Story Saturday posts, I find myself asking the same question. What is it that allows one person to survive something that seems impossible? Is it luck? Is it grit? Is it hope? Is it training? Is it faith? The more stories I read, the less convinced I…
One of the questions I’m asked most often as a therapist is, “What exactly is EMDR?” Usually someone has heard that it helps people recover from trauma, they’ve seen videos of people moving their eyes back and forth, or a friend has told them it changed their life. But beyond that, most people aren’t really…
I’m in and out of a new life phase and I’m bordering on wondering if it includes a nervous breakdown… it’s got me thinking a lot lately about transitions, but probably not in the way most people think about them. It’s easy to recognize the obvious ones. We start a new job, move to a…
One of the reasons I love stories of human resilience is because they remind me that the human spirit is capable of far more than we give it credit for. It’s easy to assume that survival belongs to people who climb mountains, cross oceans, or find themselves in extraordinary circumstances. But the longer I spend…
One of the things I hear most often from couples when they come into my office is, “We probably should have done this a long time ago.” It’s usually said with a nervous laugh, but underneath it is often a lot of regret. By the time they decide to reach out, they’ve spent months, and…
